Card 1: “We need to talk. Can we sit down?”
Card 2: “This isn’t working. We haven’t talked in 10+ days. The cooking/cleaning agreement stopped. I need to know what happens next.”
Card 3: “I need you to respond. I can’t figure this out alone.”
Fix communication
Follow through on things you said you were going to do
Need to know…. What’s going on in your life
How do we do that in a meaningful way