Tag: roommate

Re: Stress about roommate and waiting for move out details

Perhaps 36 hours is too soon to expect to know what happens next regarding my roommate; hearing from Lea, his PO, that he must make other housing arrangements. I’ve cleaned out the kitchen cupboards to sort: what can go to a food pantry, what is opened but good that friends could take, and what will go into the trash. The collection of spices I bought him last Christmas at Penzey’s most likely will not transfer well to his new housing; I’m not going to use them since I don’t cook; therefore, trash or friends? I have an appointment for The Maids to come clean Friday afternoon. The pile of empty pop cans and empty food wrappers need to be dealt with in the bedroom, I’m noticing flies again; the uneaten box of chicken wings maybe? In bedroom, I turned off the overhead fan, turned off the air purifier, unplugged the mini fridge. When I sit still, I can hear my clock ticking. The apartment is more quiet than a silent roommate.
 
Been off my Lithium 3 days; turn around time to request and deliver, slow; order should be arriving this afternoon.
 
I need to take my tiny $150 check to the bank. Waiting for my $40 garage remote deposit to be returned. I will only get reimbursed for November parking IF someone happens to rent a spot; then I could get a prorated refund? The amount of time Max sleeps on me has increased 200%.
 
Fiber optic Christmas tree = unpacked and installed on bar.
 
I’ve been having Claude tell me jokes.

Due to no change in getting my roommate to participate in conversation or household activities, I call his probationary agent. She said that my roommate missed his last appointment and he had failed to respond to her attempts to contact him. I told her that he was depressed, withdrawn, and unresponsive to me for weeks. She asked me if I had any ideas to how to get him to reengage. I had no ideas. I told her that his continuing to share my apartment was no longer sustainable and I would prefer he find other housing.
 
His PO said she had already issued a warrant for his arrest due to non compliance to check ins. She called the police to pick him up. Police came; he went to jail. I was told that he would meet with Lea within two days. Lea will start the conversation about his next steps. I don’t know if I’ll get pulled into any meetings or discussions.
 
There is meat spoiling in the fridge. I must throw out or freeze whatever is still viable. I decided to place my order for Factor75 meals — which had been the plan I made with my healthcare team before the roommate moved in.
 
Feelings. Stressed. Dread what will happen when he finds out I don’t want him back. Confused about how to handle his curb salvaged coffee table which is sitting outside the back door still, because he didn’t take action to put the table in the storage locker or make other plans. Dread telling him that I sold my (his) car. Scared I’ll hate my Factor75 meals.