{"id":248,"date":"2026-03-14T00:01:03","date_gmt":"2026-03-14T00:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/?p=248"},"modified":"2026-05-16T19:32:34","modified_gmt":"2026-05-17T00:32:34","slug":"not-able-to-celebrate-the-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/?p=248","title":{"rendered":"Not Able to Celebrate the Success"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/ontask_Not_Able_to_Celebrate_the_Success_-profile_b4of6ms_-_658ae3b9-ba8d-46f2-8ad0-00a8f45a66e7_0a.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/ontask_Not_Able_to_Celebrate_the_Success_-profile_b4of6ms_-_658ae3b9-ba8d-46f2-8ad0-00a8f45a66e7_0a.jpg 576w, https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/ontask_Not_Able_to_Celebrate_the_Success_-profile_b4of6ms_-_658ae3b9-ba8d-46f2-8ad0-00a8f45a66e7_0a-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/ontask_Not_Able_to_Celebrate_the_Success_-profile_b4of6ms_-_658ae3b9-ba8d-46f2-8ad0-00a8f45a66e7_0a-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Note written in the after visit notes, \u201c\u2026seems likely that she was not able to celebrate the success of this big purchase as much as might be useful.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The day I drove away from the dealership, I felt quiet with a mood as drippy as the subtle rain. I was glad I didn\u2019t need to use the wipers. I had only learned the right lever a few hours before. The sappy mood may merely meant I was severely tired after the three hour process of talk and paperwork. Maybe an anti-climactic feeling present? I was being turned loose with a single key and Escape. Then the some what unimportant thought: wanting a new, special key chain interrupted. Especially how the new keychain needed to be exactly right, feel right, look right, be mine. 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