{"id":32,"date":"2025-11-05T12:01:38","date_gmt":"2025-11-05T12:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/?p=32"},"modified":"2026-04-23T04:23:39","modified_gmt":"2026-04-23T04:23:39","slug":"stress-roommate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/searchingwithin.com\/wordpress\/?p=32","title":{"rendered":"Stress: Roommate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Due to no change in getting my roommate to participate in conversation or household activities, I call his probationary agent. She said that my roommate missed his last appointment and he had failed to respond to her attempts to contact him. I told her that he was depressed, withdrawn, and unresponsive to me for weeks. She asked me if I had any ideas to how to get him to reengage. I had no ideas. 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