Conversations

Family Question / Conversations that Went Poorly

PWS Q: Why couldn’t you wait until I got out of jail to … [deal with my things]?
My A: I gave no answer, because I didn’t know how to explain “reclaim my space.”

PWS Q: Why couldn’t you have asked me to move out [with a deadline] instead of calling Lea?
My A: I said, “I tried to talk to you, but received no response.”

PWS Q: Who helped you with the storage locker?
My A: After several moments of badgering, I said, “Brady,” and provided no additional explanation.

PWS Q: Did you get rid of the mini fridge?
My A: “Yes. The white one is still in the locker.”
PWS: I don’t want that one.

PWS: Some of my meds are missing.
[I made no comment. (All med items from bedroom were packed together in 2 boxes).]

PWS Q: Why didn’t you put… [like stuff with like stuff]?
[I made no comment. (I did my best to put similar things together).]

PWS Q: Never, Never call Lea again. Don’t you realize that just causes more problems for me?
[I made no comment.]

PWS Q: Why did you have to get the police involved?
My A: I did not call the police.
PWS: Yes you did… [something something]
[I made no comment.]

PWS Q: Can I leave these things upstairs while I go to the gym?
My A: No.

Older sister: email about storage lockers with stuff from deceased sister Sharon and other antiques from Pat which will go to auction if the late rental fee is not paid off soon.

Me: have not answered; I don’t want to co-sign a loan and I don’t have ~$2000.